THE CONSCIENCE OF A FOUR YEAR OLD
Would you have no fear of the one who is in authority? Then do what is good, and you will receive his approval, for he is God’s servant for your good. Therefore one must be in subjection, not only to avoid God’s wrath but also for the sake of conscience. Romans 13:3-5
A few days ago my four-year-old grandson visited me for several hours. After a particularly trying moment where he tested the limits of my authority, I informed him that he would obey me and decided he was old enough to begin to understand why. I sat in my office chair, pulled him up on my lap and said, “The only way you will be happy is to obey whoever is in authority. God made you that way. Even Nana has people to obey, did you know that? Policemen tell me what to do. Even Jesus tells me what to do. And when I hear His voice, my heart should say, ‘Yes, Lord!’ Nana is just miserable if I don’t obey Jesus. I love you, Andy, and I want you to have a happy heart. Obeying me right now is so important.”
I’m not sure he had a breakthrough moment. This will be the beginning of many discussions like this but it’s a beginning. Ultimately, any of us in authority over children should handle it carefully for we are training them to grow up and say, “Yes, Lord!” to whatever He asks of them. We don’t want them to have to learn submission through the hard road of rebellion and discipline. Whatever we don’t teach them well, God will. The lessons will be harder at 35 then they would have been at Andy’s age. Let’s spare them that. Continue reading “The Conscience of a Four Year Old”