Category: Reaching The Hurting

Encouragement Skill #12

REMEMBER THE ORPHAN’S POSTURE Imagine yourself receiving this news. The paperwork for the child your family has been waiting to adopt from overseas is finally finished.  Your new son is from war-torn Sudan.  He lost both his parents in the relentless bombing and desperately needs … Continue reading Encouragement Skill #12

Encouragement Skill #11

GIVE THE GIFT OF PRAYER The most valuable of all gifts is the gift of prayer but it is the promise of prayer for others that leaves something to be desired.  ‘I’ll pray for you’ is often the quick go-to line when I need to … Continue reading Encouragement Skill #11

Remember, They Are In Shock

Isaiah said, “At this my body is racked with pain, pangs seize me, like those of a woman in labor.  I am staggered by what I hear, I am bewildered by what I see.”  You can relate, right?  If you’ve been through a tragedy, you … Continue reading Remember, They Are In Shock

Encouragement Skill #9

ASK GOOD QUESTIONS “Where are you?”  It was the first question posed in the history of our world.  God was the one was doing the asking.  While a question is usually asked for the purpose of finding an answer, it was not true in this … Continue reading Encouragement Skill #9

Encouragement Skill #8

VALIDATE!  DON’T HUMOR! Like apples of gold in settings of silver is a word spoken in right circumstances.  Like an earring of gold and an ornament of fine gold is a wise reprover to a listening ear.  Proverbs 25:11-12 Jesus was a truth teller and … Continue reading Encouragement Skill #8

Encouragement Skill #7

NETWORK WITH OTHER SURVIVORS Our healing is never just for us. “God comforts us in all our afflictions so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affiliation with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.  If we … Continue reading Encouragement Skill #7