At What Point Do You Give Up?

I will praise the Lord no matter what happens. I will constantly speak of his glories and grace. I will boast of all his kindness to me. Let all who are discouraged take heart. Let us praise the Lord together and exalt his name. For I cried to him and he answered me! He freed me from all my fears.  Others too were radiant at what he did for them. Theirs was no downcast look of rejection!  This poor man cried to the Lord—and the Lord heard him and saved him out of his troubles.  For the Angel of the Lord guards and rescues all who reverence him. Oh, put God to the test and see how kind he is!  Psalm 134:1-8  TLB

I shared a meal recently with someone who just needed to talk. She admitted that her heart had shut down. One storm after another had overtaken her but for a while she believed things were manageable. There was more right than wrong so she stayed optimistic. She believed in her natural problem solving skills.   Eventually though, things fell apart with most every family member. She wept as she admitted that she had lost her voice, lost her hope, and lost her fight.

What’s missing from this picture is a mention of God. Prayer, faith, and strategy, are absent. It’s not that she doesn’t know God. She does but her prayers are way too sporadic. Passivity means that she has abdicated the outcome to stronger forces she doesn’t have the will to fight anymore.

When the enemy comes in like a flood, I don’t have to stand back and wring my hands over the invasion. When sickness overtakes a family member, I can do more than watch. When bad news is announced, I can do more than listen. When sin dominates another part of the house, I can do more than worry. When a family member succumbs to depression, I can do more than offer platitudes. When the bank account is depleted, I can do more than expect destitution. God will raise up a standard and He will use me to be His temple of faith and praise.

If you’re lying down because you feel hopeless, get up. If you’ve lost your voice, get it back. If you’ve stopped praying, fall to your knees. The language you need is the language of the scriptures. If you have a mouth that can read the Word of God out loud, you’re not wordless. No home need permeate darkness when praise music plays twenty-four hours a day. No mother need cry herself to sleep with hopeless tears when God gives her scriptures to address every single thing that assaults her household. God’s daughter is meant to walk the house and pray scripture out loud. She does it in the morning. She does it again at night. Her faith is revived as she speaks God’s promises. They are the battle cry that declares war on God’s adversary.

What happens when the enemy hears her scriptural pronouncements and when God’s Word assaults his ears? His schemes are threatened. He is reminded of his limits and flees. Know this ~ he will try to re-group, only to be met again with the the child of God who knows that the secret is persevering. Let that be you. Have a word ready for his next act of aggression.

Is everything you’ve read merely my attempt to give a good sounding pep talk? No. I’ve lived long enough to have experienced life falling apart on many fronts and, oftentimes, it happened all at once. There were periods when I capitulated to a serious depression. But somewhere in the night, there was an infusion of faith and God tutored this child to learn strategy and warfare. The turnaround didn’t happen all at once. His Word drove out the despair like the slow drip of a life-giving IV and it revived me. What I thought I needed to tolerate became history. God’s glory came to rest but not without my full engagement and cooperative effort. There’s a reason scripture trembles in my hands. It’s wonder – not fear. Let me pass along my well-founded confidence to you. It is a gift from someone who once lived in the pit of nothingness.

I’m praying for the one whose hands are limp and whose tongue is silent. Nudge her to pick up her sword. Help her conceive a strategic plan to take back what the enemy has plundered. Lead her to scriptures for every area of defeat. Give her a voice to speak them out loud. Let the enemy know that You are raising up a standard against him with a resurrected daughter. In Jesus name, Amen

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2 thoughts on “At What Point Do You Give Up?

  1. I’ve been really wanting to give up these past 2 weeks. Sunday in church, when Pastor Buddy preached on Romans 8, the Holy Spirit deeply convicted me of a lot of the things you wrote about in this blog. “If you have a mouth that can read the Word of God out loud, you’re not wordless.” This is so true. For those two weeks, no matter what, God brought me to his word- even though I was emotionless, anxious, and standoffish. It was beautiful to see when I fell before him begging for mercy he not only redeemed me, but showed me how He was whispering to me and teaching me even when I didn’t feel like listening or being taught. When I was done, God was starting a new thing. Even in the midst of darkness God’s light always breaks through!

  2. This was a profound message that I needed to hear this morning!! Ironically, I’m here on your site because of a dear friend who is going through the unthinkable. She, herself, forwarded one of your posts to a few of us who were interceding for her husband during a time of very clinical depression and anxiety. It came to me a couple of months ago, but I ran across it again last night. I came here and signed up for your email. Little did I know that the devotional you would write just this morning was exactly what I needed to hear.

    I was up last night in the middle of the night praying for someone who I love more than anything who is struggling this week with unexplained anxieties. When I ended up on your Daughters of Promise site I was challenged to write a write a prayer map for him. It was good for me. I was good for him, for God gave him sweet sleep and rest last night…while I “stood on the wall” for him in the wee hours of this morning.

    Thank you so much for this good, sound word and for the prayer offered up that seemed to be specifically for me!


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