Meanwhile Boaz went up to the town gate and sat there. When the kinsman-redeemer he had mentioned came along, Boaz said, “Come over here, my friend, and sit down.” So he went over and sat down. Ruth 4:1
Boaz prepared the moment with care. He knew he needed to speak with the man who held the legal right to redeem Naomi’s land and marry Ruth. It was a delicate conversation—one that could have easily turned adversarial. Boaz could have approached him with charm, rivalry, or manipulation. But he didn’t. He chose the path of friendship. He also chose integrity over strategy. A heart rooted in God does not need to fear the strength, status, or possessions of another. In God’s kingdom, no one is diminished by another person’s blessing.
But I recognize my own insecurities here. I know what it is to glance sideways and feel the sting of envy and to see someone living the very life I longed for. I can interpret their abundance as evidence of God’s favor and my lack as evidence of His neglect. In those moments, authenticity becomes nearly impossible. My words sound kind, but my heart is conflicted. Internally, I fear they will see straight through me.
I’ve been guilty of believing that God was withholding good from me. I feared He played favorites. I chose to forget that He was still writing my story and that I’d not yet reached the chapters where redemption unfolds in full. Taking those lessons into the future, I know now that I cannot judge His faithfulness midstream. He has not finished healing the ashes of my past. He has not finished rewarding the seeds of obedience I’ve planted through the years.
I also cannot know the full truth of others’ lives behind closed doors, either. I may be impressed by their public story yet know nothing of the private ache behind closed doors. Pain is universal. No life is as flawless as it appears from afar.
There is no competition in the kingdom of God. Boaz knew this, and he rested. He trusted that God would safeguard his love for Ruth. Maturity allows me to sit at the table with the very person who once stirred my envy. Not because I have risen above them, but because Christ has rooted me deeper in Himself.
When I am content in Your love, whom shall I fear? Amen