When It Appears To Fall Apart

Although it is true that I am near of kin, there is a kinsman-redeemer nearer than I. Ruth 3:12

Just when Ruth’s future began to look secure, a technicality arose that could threaten everything. There was a relative closer to her than Boaz, and he had priority in the process of redemption. What kind of man was he? She was acquainted now with Boaz and knew that he was a man of honor. Her heart had finally settled but with this new development, the temptation to plummet into uncertainty had to be real. 

Often, what I hope for feels close to coming true. It’s within my reach, and I see the welcome changes about to impact my life.  I pinch myself.  “Will this really be mine?” I wonder. But just as I start to believe it is, complications arise and it slips away. Sometimes, the obstacle can be overcome, but not always.

What does God require of me? The same thing God would have asked of Ruth if another redeemer had stepped forward.  Perhaps he would have been a lesser man than Boz.  We are to wrap our arms around the only One who sustains us through these kinds of disappointments. Just as Ruth’s future was held securely in the sovereignty of God, so is mine. 

Some people cross our paths, make promises, and raise our hopes. We start to breathe more easily. Dreams of a different life are about to be realized. But then, it all fades away. The promise-maker becomes a promise-breaker. It’s hard to pray for those who deal treacherously with our hearts. Forgiveness takes time and is always messy. But we can bring every disappointment to Abba’s heart. His tears mingle with ours. He breathes new life into our hopelessness. And then—there is HIS redemption. Always moving. Always for our good. No one can take away our blessing.     

Redeem the ashes of Your servants. Amen

When I Turn Down The Easy Answer

“The LORD bless you, my daughter,” he replied. “You have not run after the younger men, whether rich or poor.” Ruth 3:10

Ruth had moved the heart of Boaz long before she ever laid herself at his feet. Her reputation was not built overnight; it was the slow, steady accumulation of a life governed by honor. When he discovered her in the quiet darkness of his threshing floor, he was not offended, alarmed, or suspicious. Her history had already spoken for her.

“You have not run after younger men,” he told her. In other words, she did not seize the first opportunity that promised relief. She refused false rescue. She resisted the easy answers that would have soothed for a moment and shattered for a lifetime. She bore her sorrow with steadfast trust, allowing God to script the redemption she could not manufacture.  Her faith was expressed through integrity.

I wish I could say the same of myself. But I know what it is to run after substitutes. I know how appealing they feel in the moment — how they offer the illusion of relief while quietly hollowing out the soul.

Sometimes my counterfeit was a person. When I encountered someone radiant with God’s presence, I mistook their nearness for His.  It felt easier to pursue a human reflection than to carve out the time and quiet needed to pursue Christ Himself. It was second-hand spirituality.  It was warm, accessible, and dangerously cheap.

I’ve learned not to take the quick way out. Pain has been a stern teacher, but it has shaped a stronger obedience in me. I know now, deeply and soulfully, that Jesus is the treasure. No human substitute can hold a candle to His presence. No shortcut can rival His wisdom. No counterfeit can satisfy what only redemption can restore.

I am done running after lesser loves.  I run toward You alone.  Amen

It’s Mine If I Ask For It

In the middle of the night something startled the man, and he turned and discovered a woman lying at his feet. “Who are you?” he asked. “I am your servant Ruth,” she said. “Spread the corner of your garment over me, since you are a kinsman-redeemer.” Ruth 3:8-9

In Ruth’s world, the gesture of redemption was clear and covenantal. When a man was willing to serve as a go’el (a kinsman-redeemer), he would extend the corner of his cloak over the woman as a sign of protection, provision, and belonging. It was not an act of seduction; it was a request wrapped in humility and courage. She sought to preserve her husband’s lineage, to place herself under the shelter of the one appointed by God’s law to protect her. In that culture, family restored family. God’s statutes were not merely rules; they were channels of mercy.

And yet, human nature being what it is, not every man who fulfilled the law did so with joy. Some obeyed, performing the duty but withholding the grace. The law, meant to lead God’s people into abundant life, could become burdensome in the hands of the ungodly. No doubt, many women found themselves technically covered by obligation but not by kindness.

Generations later, her great-grandson, King David, would echo that same spirit when he wrote, “You, Lord, have been my help; in the shadow of Your wings I sing for joy.” Psalm 63:7

Much later, King David, Ruth’s great-grandson, would write, “You, Lord, have been my help. In the shadow of Your wings I sing for joy.” Psalms 63:7 He knew about redemption and the gracious spirit in which God provided it. David’s words teach me that I can go to my Redeemer at any time without fear of rejection. My own poverty does not repel Him. His love, not law, fuels his love for me. The only barrier is my own hesitation to come.

Jesus, gather the loose threads of my life into Your covering. Heal what time has frayed and redeem what fear has hidden.Amen

What Am I Doing?

When Boaz had finished eating and drinking and was in good spirits, he went over to lie down at the far end of the grain pile. Ruth approached quietly, uncovered his feet and lay down. Ruth 3:7

Have you ever taken a step of obedience so large that halfway through, you suddenly wondered, What am I doing? How did I get here?  Faith can carry us into landscapes that feel foreign, vast, and strangely quiet — the kind of places where our confidence trembles and our questions grow loud.

We’ll never know if Ruth had these thoughts as she took her place at the foot of Boaz’ sleeping place. Surely she had some level of apprehension. Would he scold her? Would he feel embarrassed by her act of intimacy? Would he send her away, thereby severing any hopes of redemption? Would he lose respect for her? Would he withdraw his offer to allow her to gather grain from his fields? Personally, there was a lot at stake. There always is when we answer God’s call.

We’ll never know if Ruth felt that quake of uncertainty as she approached the threshing floor and lay at the feet of Boaz. Scripture is silent about her inner world that night, but we can imagine the tremor of human apprehension beneath her obedience. Would he misunderstand her? Would he feel exposed, or embarrassed?  Would he interpret her gesture as dishonorable? Would he send her away and dismantle any hope of redemption? Would this singular act undo all the fragile favor she had found in his fields?

Ruth carried far more than barley to that place — she carried the weight of two women’s futures. There is always something at stake when we say yes to God.  Obedience has a way of escorting us beyond the edges of our comfort. Henry Blackaby calls this a “God-sized task.”  It is too much for human strength, too steep for natural skill, too intricate for our own networking or ingenuity. No wonder it intimidates us. God-sized assignments press on nerves we do not possess and require capacities we have not yet developed. They compel us to put our radical trust in God.

I once insisted I was unqualified to lead a ministry. I told God I wasn’t leadership material. I felt small under the shadow of others’ opinions. I had no vocabulary for the woman I would become when loved into wholeness. I was certain God had chosen the wrong person. But now I see that He wasn’t looking for the most polished leader.  He was looking for someone willing, someone who would trust His shaping hand more than her own limitations.  And across the decades, Scripture has whispered this assurance.   “The One who calls you is faithful, and He will do it.” 1 Thess. 5:24

Father, nothing is hidden from Your sight.  Not the obstacles, not the timing, not the weight of what You’ve asked. Guide me with Your wisdom and anchor my courage in Your faithfulness.
Amen

A Night For Redemption

Tonight he will be winnowing barley on the threshing floor. Wash and perfume yourself, and put on your best clothes. Then go down to the threshing floor, but don’t let him know you are there until he has finished eating and drinking. When he lies down, note the place where he is lying. Then go and uncover his feet and lie down. He will tell you what to do.” Ruth 3:3-4

Naomi discerned the pulse of God’s timing in the ordinary. A door had opened in the unseen—one that could alter the course of two destitute lives. Boaz was more than a gracious landowner; he was kin, a redeemer written into their story by the quiet hand of providence. Naomi’s heart, once bitter, flickered with hope again. She knew what must be done.

Her plan for Ruth was as bold as it was tender. Wash. Dress up. Anoint. Go.  This was in no way a manipulative scheme; it was faith clothed in vulnerability. Ruth would approach Boaz in the stillness of night, not to seduce, but to let surrender speak through her stillness. Her boldness was holy as she laid herself at the feet of her redeemer, asking without words to be covered in grace.

That kind of courage is rare.  I’ve been extremely shy with Jesus, even though my needs were profound.  I knew of His redeeming power, admired His mercy, even sang of His love, but stayed safely on the sidelines, avoiding an intimate encounter.  I believed His promises were true, but ‘too good to be true’ for me. I came to Him clothed in reserve, rehearsing polite prayers while hiding my spiritual hunger and desperate needs. I feared exposing my longing, feared that my needs were too much.  But there was a turning point.  I engaged.  Nothing has ever been the same.

I’ve learned that redemption is extended as an invitation.  It’s a duet, not a solo.  It requires my direct involvement.  He stretches out His hand and I respond, heart trembling, with a ‘yes’.  Maybe heaven grows still when I come to Jesus without pretense, ready to be covered by grace.

Jesus, spread Your garment over me.  Continue to exchange my history for Your redemptive storyline.  Ruin for restoration. My night for Your dawn. Amen

Miraculous Options

Is not Boaz, with whose servant girls you have been, a kinsman of ours? Ruth 3:2

I can almost hear the gasp of joy that escaped Naomi’s lips. Ruth, breathless from the day’s labor, recounted the story of an unexpected kindness—a wealthy landowner who had noticed her, protected her, and filled her hands with grain. Then came the revelation: he was not a stranger at all, but a relative, a kinsman. In that moment, Naomi’s despair cracked open, and light filtered in. She knew what this meant.

If an Israelite were in desperate financial straits, he would sell his field, or even himself, into slavery. The responsibility for redemption fell to his kinsman. God intended that the ransom be paid by those who had the greatest personal interest in redemption, the man’s own flesh and blood.

In Israel, when poverty drove a man to sell his inheritance, or even himself into slavery, the mantle of redemption would fall upon a kinsman. It was not a transaction between strangers; it was redemption that was written into the family’s very bloodline. God designed it so that rescue would come from within, from one who shared both the burden and the blood.

What a picture of Christ this is. Every thread of Ruth’s story glows with His glory. Boaz, the man of Bethlehem, became Ruth’s kinsman-redeemer. Jesus, born in that same Bethlehem, became mine. Since redemption had to be a family affair, the Son of God clothed Himself in humanity’s garment. He stepped into our brokenness, our hunger and our heartbreak. No angel could have done it. Only a Brother could pay the price.

What once seemed utterly hopeless for Naomi and Ruth—their futures desolate, their names nearly erased—was instantly transformed by the whisper of a redeemer’s name. Hope took root where grief had lived. I know that story intimately. I, too, once stood in the field of my own failures, unsure what to do with the ruins of my sin. But then Jesus appeared, as He always does, and spread before me new choices:  mercy for condemnation, grace for guilt, and second chances for failure.

The word “trapped” should never be in my vocabulary. You can redeem absolutely anything. Amen

Right Under Our Noses

One day Naomi her mother-in-law said to her, “My daughter, should I not try to find a home for you, where you will be well provided for? Is not Boaz, with whose servant girls you have been, a kinsman of ours? Tonight he will be winnowing barley on the threshing floor. Ruth 3:1-2

Grief had hollowed out Naomi’s heart, yet in this tender moment, she felt a flicker of resurrection. The woman who once declared herself Mara (which means bitter) imagined the possibility of joy. Hope dared to breathe again. She stepped out of lament and into intercession, guiding Ruth toward a kinsman redeemer who mirrored the kindness of God Himself. The threshing floor wouldn’t just separate grain from chaff that night.  It would separate despair from destiny.

Boaz was more than just a good man; he was a foreshadowing of our ultimate Redeemer who gathers the foreigner, the widow, and the outcast beneath His covering. Ruth, the outsider, would soon find herself woven into the lineage of the Messiah. God was already writing eternity into her story.

How often, I wonder, is divine provision hiding in plain sight? We pray for open doors, unaware that God’s answer may already be standing in our field, disguised as something familiar. We overlook the very answer God has planted in our surroundings.

When I moved to Georgia, a much older prayer partner told me that Athens (not Atlanta) would hold everything I needed for our family and for Daughters of Promise. I smiled politely but couldn’t imagine that such a small place could deliver such a promise. I was leaving the big city of Cincinnati.  But here’s how it unfolded.  Yes, Athens may be smaller, but each time I have needed anything and consider driving to Atlanta to find it, the answer turns up in Athens. In many cases, right around the corner from my home/office.

What are you desperately seeking today? Perhaps the dilemma will be solved by narrowing your search to within your four walls. Or, down the street. In your office building. Within the church ranks. In your small town. God is never careless with geography. There is more mileage in each affiliation than we ever thought possible. Don’t overlook the obvious.  Look again. What seems ordinary may, in fact, be the threshing floor of your next redemption.

Lord, I confess how often I’ve accused You of withholding. Open my eyes to recognize Your provision. Teach me to trust what You have waiting for me. Amen

Beyond The Grave

Ruth told her mother-in-law about the one at whose place she had been working. “The name of the man I worked with today is Boaz,” she said.” The LORD bless him!” Naomi said to her daughter-in-law. “He has not stopped showing his kindness to the living and the dead.” Ruth 2:19-20

When Boaz honored Ruth, his kindness rippled backward through time. It touched not only Naomi’s heart but also the memory of Elimelech and the husband Ruth had lost. In blessing the living, he honored the dead. Love never dies.

We are surrounded by a great cloud of witnesses. “Since we are,” the writer of Hebrews reminds us, “let us lay aside every weight and the sin that so easily entangles.”  Each of us lives before a unique audience, a gathering of souls whose love has shaped us. Yours may include family members who taught you faith, mentors whose wisdom shaped your choices, and the, now unseen, saints who prayed you through storms.  They are not distant spectators but quiet companions.  Their presence reminds me that I don’t live in isolation; I’m part of a far greater story.

There are days I feel their prayers. I discern the reality that I do not make the smallest decision without the watchful eyes of those already with Jesus. My father and mother are cheering me on. Two older prayer partners, Rose and Iris, are smiling over my shoulder. In fact, our church is currently experiencing a tender move on God on our women. The heavens are not silent; they are alive with prayer.

The kingdom of God transcends separation. There is always a connection between the living and the dead. Death cannot sever the bonds of covenant love. The communion of saints is not poetry—it is reality. Their legacy shapes my next steps and reminds me that my choices ripple beyond this calendar day. Unseen faces are watching, cheering me on to make a righteous decision.

The grave has never stopped the advancement of Your Kingdom, Jesus. Amen

Character Rises To The Surface

Boaz gave orders to his men, “Even if she gathers among the sheaves, don’t embarrass her. Rather, pull out some stalks for her from the bundles and leave them for her to pick up, and don’t rebuke her.” Ruth 2:15-16

The rules for the poor were clear: they could gather only what fell to the ground. The sheaves, bundled and heavy with grain, were forbidden. Imagine how tempting it must have been for those hungry and impoverished to steal when no one was looking. A rich supply of grain was just within their grasp, yet they couldn’t touch it. It seems Boaz understood the quiet torment of the needy heart, the tension between reverence and desperation.

Quietly, behind the scenes, he made provision for Ruth to touch what was previously forbidden. He opened his heart to her need and gave her permission to gather food from the best of his
land. She had passed the test. Her character had been revealed by her life’s story. She hadn’t performed to become credible. She hadn’t performed at all. Her character proved sterling without an awareness of the watchful eyes of spectators. Ruth had been faithful with little. Because of that, Boaz knew he was free to entrust Ruth with more.

So he intervened. Quietly, behind the scenes, Boaz ordered his men to bend the rules in her favor. He turned restriction into invitation. Ruth, who had labored faithfully within her limits, suddenly found the boundaries moved, not by her striving, but by grace. What she had done in secret, anonymously, proved to construct a platform of credibility.

Her character had already told her story. She had been faithful in obscurity, kind when no one was watching, steadfast in grief. She did not perform; she lived truthfully. Boaz saw what God had long seen—a woman who could be trusted with more. Faithfulness in little had prepared her for abundance.

I often think that no one is watching me. However, I am not an island and Ruth’s story reinforces that truth. The sacrifices I’ve made, the decisions for righteousness made in the dark, the encouragement given to the weak, all leave impressions.  The quality of a person’s heart is not hidden for long. I wear my history like a garment around my shoulders for all to see. Character always rises to the surface; it cannot remain buried forever.

In Your kingdom, there are already NO restrictions. You have made all Your resources available to me because of Your mercy, not my goodness. Amen

It Was So Easy!

Boaz gave orders to his men, “Even if she gathers among the sheaves, don’t embarrass her. Rather, pull out some stalks for her from the bundles and leave them for her to pick up, and don’t rebuke her.” Ruth 2:15-16

I would have loved to hear Ruth’s own retelling of that day. Perhaps she burst through the door to Naomi, her arms aching under the weight of grain, her face lit up with wonder. “You know,” she might have said, “this afternoon was easier than the morning. Somehow, I gathered twice as much in half the time. Isn’t that strange?” Maybe she lay awake that night, turning it over in her mind, unable to explain it. The truth was simple—Boaz had gone before her. He had quietly instructed his men to leave grain on purpose. The path Ruth walked was not random; it was prepared. Every stalk, every blessing, had been deliberately placed in her way. Her labor was still real, but grace had gone ahead of her, multiplying her effort.

As a child, my favorite fairy tale was Hansel and Gretel.  I was captivated by the image of Hansel dropping breadcrumbs through the forest—tiny tokens of care marking the way home. Gretel still had to walk through darkness, but she was not lost. Her brother had thought of her; his love had left her a path to follow. “Don’t cry,” he said. “I’ll take care of you.”  Even in the shadows of the forest, she was not forgotten.

I often think I am responsible for myself. The weight of daily provision weighs on me. With stooped shoulders, I conclude that if ground is to be gained, it’s all up to me. I fail to see that it is God who prepares the way. He graces my life with the right contacts. He surprises me with unexpected provision. He gives me favor in encounters that are pivotal to my future. He brings clarity to confusing situations just in the nick of time. I have erroneously considered such moments “coincidences”, but I know better.  I have toiled as though there were no Boaz, no Brother, no Shepherd who went before me.

But God is not a distant observer. He is the One arranging encounters, aligning timing, setting favor in motion long before I arrive. He is the quiet Provider behind every “unexpected” grace.

Today, I will walk with open eyes.  I will look for the breadcrumbs of Your kindness.  I know that I am guided, sustained, and loved.  Amen