Accused of Being a Stumbling Block

February 18, 2016

No one who hopes in you will ever be put to shame, but shame will come on those who are treacherous without cause.  Psalm 25:3

         I’ve been acquainted with numerous Christian organizations that wanted to legislate nearly every part of life.  Admittedly, if someone listened to everyone who had an opinion about every peripheral issue of life, they’d be frozen in place.  So many have something to say about everything.

          Having lived in a fishbowl of some notoriety, I can tell you that your life is often studied by others.  With study comes criticism.  Some is ludicrous, some is ignorant due to lack of information, and some is probably justified.  Sifting through it though, and sorting out the hurt feelings that come from others’ comments, is difficult.  Criticism usually comes from those with whom you have no personal relationship.

How dare you         So, am I to adjust my behavior to every person who say they are offended by me?  That can’t be the right answer because legalism will always be with us.  So will honest seekers who stumble because we’re a forgiven, yet sinful, people.

         I believe, for me, the answer lies in considering the one I am offending. If the spirit of legalism rules this person’s life, seeking to encroach upon the true spirit of liberty Jesus died to extend to His children, then I am not obligated to comply.  I want to extend the grace of Christ Jesus to others so why would I take on a yoke that Jesus died to free me from?

         But, if I encounter someone who is honestly seeking Jesus, one who loves the Word and is growing in his faith, but also one who stumbles over a particular thing I’m doing, I should consider his fragile faith and change my behavior.  I am not to impeded in any way what God is building.

         For any of us who have walked out of the pit of legalism into the spacious place of grace, this can seem like a step backwards.  It might feel like I am walking again in the bondage I left behind.  It probably does feel like that but it is not like that.  Look, I can’t sort this out without prayer and looking for the nod of my Savior over whether anothers issue with me is a valid one.  If it is, Jesus will give me the grace to consider my brother even though it will take some time for my emotions, damaged by past experience, to catch up.  Legalism will always be a tender spot for any of us who have been beaten up under its umbrella.

Who can sort it out?  Only Your Spirit.  I’m glad You’re in me, teaching me, making hard things clear.  Thank you for the grace to obey when my feelings betray me.  In Jesus name, Amen

An Atmosphere of Disgrace

February 3, 2016


Do not let the oppressed retreat in disgrace; may the poor and needy praise your name.  Psalm 74:21

           Why do seasons of disgrace often span a decade or two?  Shame doesn’t usually last a month or two and God can appear to be out of the picture completely; ignoring me when I’m oppressed.  When a wilderness marks a large portion of my life, can I know that God is in the process of bringing about redemption?  Yes, if I am God’s child. Captivity is never His intended outcome.  No daughter of promise is to suffer crippling shame.  God said, “Instead of your shame you will receive a double portion, and instead of disgrace you will rejoice in your inheritance.”  Isaiah 61:7   Shame is to be replaced with double favor.  Disgrace is to move out of the way for joy.

         I have known seasons of affliction. None of them were short. All taught me perseverance, the power of prayer, and the nature of the wilderness. While great spiritual things prevailed at the end, the beginnings and middle of these seasons were pretty ugly.  I had no clue how to navigate the years.  Now I do know and that feeds my passion for ministry.    Continue reading